From the monthly archives:

April 2007

Rugby Story

by Tony Steward on April 30, 2007

I recently had to fill out a brief background on my life. In it I finally wrote out one of the more profound ministry experiences I had with a community rugby team. It is concise, but was a great experience for me:

“I graduated from Malone in 2001 with a Bachelors of Arts Degree with a major in Youth Ministry and a major in Sports Ministry. During that time I had several significant experiences that have shaped me, but none as significant as my time spent with a community rugby team.

My approach in ministry to the team was to join, and to build relationships through time spent and earning the right to be heard. Interacting with the team kept me constantly on my toes to be very authentic in my faith, but not judgmental in my attitude. These men were not faithful church goers (in any respect), but the first thing they needed was a listening ear and trusted friend - not a judge. Since they liked to have parties for everything, I decided to throw a Christmas party for the whole team. I had my mother fix all the sides she usually did for thanksgiving, but for 30 rugby guys. I was able to get the college’s youth ministry professor to help me cook a 30 pound gooseneck roast, his speciality. And I even had some of my professors and friends come to the party just to mingle. We had a euchre tournament, lots of food, and great conversation. And then I asked everyone to convene, and I said I just wanted to take 5 minutes and tell them what Christmas meant to me and to my family. I expected them to blow me off, but they were all extremely attentive, no joking, no rolling eyes, alert attention. I explained the gift of Jesus, and how that was the center of the celebration of Christmas. And how his birth marked God’s love towards us, to restore us in relationship with him.

After the 5 minutes, we simple returned to the party. And a couple people came up and said they really appreciated me taking that time. No one came forward, but for almost all of them I knew that was the very first time they had ever really heard the gospel from someone they knew and trusted. A year later one of them came to trust Jesus through a strong relationship with a Christian friend. That whole experience etched into my lifestyle the desire to earn a voice with someone, especially in terms of the gospel, and never demanding it.”

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When you are first starting out in ministry, and you have all the energy and ambition in the world, it is easy to fall into an egotistical trap. That trap is that you are fully prepared to lead, run, andsuccessfully navigate vocational ministry. Here is the truth - you aren’t ready.



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ambition vs mission

by Tony Steward on April 27, 2007

cool quote for the ambitious in ministry



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My wife is taking on a fun journey

by Tony Steward on April 25, 2007

My wife has decided to write a book, and I couldn’t be more excited for her. She is an amazing writer and it will be fun to see her push and stretch herself in this goal. The topic of the book is something that is very close to both of our hearts.



She has posted some initial questions for people to answer to help her (she is especially looking for answers from people who would not call themselves Christian),  here are my two favorites:



  • What comes to mind when you hear the word Christian?
  • What do you desire most out of life?

See the rest of the questions here:

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Succession of Leadership and the American Mega Church

by Tony Steward on April 25, 2007

Looking at the American Mega-church of today, I think there is one profound issue that is generally ignored, but that is devastating to momentum, effectiveness and mission: SUCCESSION

Once a church is either started by, or grown by a dynamic, powerful leader, how do they make sure the church, as an organization, doesn’t become subject to the fate of its leader? To take this a different way, if Bill Hybels, Rob Bell, and Joel Olsteen were no longer at their respective churches - what would happen to their church’s influence and mission? If you think I am being unfair, America, a super power in the world, changes top leadership every 4-8 years, and maintains its presence, and has even done so through crises like wars!

This thought was inspired by a book I am reading by Peter Drucker, here is the specific quote from “Management Challenges for the 21st Century”:

“Yet we now practice - and not only in American industry - the most extreme “personality cult” of CEO supermen. And no one seems to pay the slightest attention in our present worship of these larger-than-life CEOs to the question of how and by what process they are to be succeeded - and yet, succession has always been the ultimate test of any top management and the ultimate test of any institution.”

So, replace “CEO” with “Pastor”, cause the same dynamic certainly exists, and how are American churches doing?

How are the children’s, youth, and other pastor lead ministries doing at succession?

How is the Church passing Drucker’s “ultimate test”, across the board?

What do you guys think?

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Street Evangelist Saves 300 Souls From Enjoying Park

by Tony Steward on April 25, 2007

… awesome…



excerpt:




“SAN FRANCISCO—Open-air preacher “Brother Sam” Hilson rescued more than 300 of God’s children from appreciating a cloudless spring day at Golden Gate Park Tuesday by informing them of their sins and the swift approach of Judgment Day.




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[It is okay to be inspired to evangelize, but don't be a "Jack-Donkey"]

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What are the Core Values of Web 2.0 coming from?

by Tony Steward on April 25, 2007

Over the past year and a half I have been very interested in a movement that has been coined “Web 2.0″. It is in relation to how the internet, and our interaction with it, has evolved. Recently I started processing what the core values of this movement were, and where they were originating.



The initial response is “duh, these new internet realities have come about because of technological advances!.” But I don’t think it is as subtle as that. I believe there are much more profound societal changes that are driving this movement, and that technology has been the tool (ex. myspace, youtube, blogs), device (ex. computers, cellphones) , and the medium (the internet, websites, web services) that these new values have been expressed through.



Here the core values I see changing in our society at large that is strongly behind the Web 2.0 movement:



  1. Global Community: the world is quickly growing smaller, and our perspectives are growing much larger. We understand that there is a diverse world around us, but we also recognize that connecting to someone in community no longer has to be constrained by geography. We can and want to interact with people who are like minded, no matter where they live. Engaging in a community that likes what we like, and talks about what we like to talk about. We are also drawn to consider others, more than just ourselves. This emerging generation has strong value in social activism on a global scale.

  2. Authenticity: we would rather have a conversation over coffee with an expert, than attend their conference. We aren’t as interested in the “wow” factor, as we are with the “real” factor. I want to see someone in the middle of the conversation, on a blog, than read their article on CNN.com. Because then I know I am really getting them, their responses, and more importantly their humanity.
  3. Sharing: we want to share our experiences with the world. We want to share our videos, we want to share our opinions, we want to share our values, our pictures, our life story. We want to give an account or a witness or a testimony about what is happening to us, and what we really care about. Or what we really don’t a care about. We want to share a funny experience and hear the rest of the world laugh with us.
  4. The collective: we appreciate experts, but it is no secret that the more people that are addressing a topic, the better the result will be. We want to share in the authorship, the accountability and the result. We want to collaborate together on topics, themes, and things that interest us. We want a collective effort, that includes a collective accountability, that produces a collective result that is better than anyone of us could have done alone.

That is all I can think of now, but these are the roots of almost every Web 2.0 service, site, or fad I can think of. What do you think?

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Seriously Cool Device

by Tony Steward on April 25, 2007

I love mobile devices, mainly because I haven’t really seen the “right” one yet. But I know that there is an incredible advantage to who ever gets it right. Now the Blackberrys and Treos out there get close, but depending on your industry and computing needs, it is hard to trust one of those smartphones as a convenient replacement for your laptop or desktop.



That said, I have just stumbled upon a device that gets dangerously close to the “bullseye”; It is called the HTC Advantage. Here is my list of Pros and Cons for this device:

PROS

  • 8 Hours Battery Life, 5 Hours Watching Video

  • 5 inch touch screen

  • Keypad and tablet form factor, with cool magnetic connects as the keyboard or cover

  • Wifi b/g, bluetooth, and high speed cell/wireless

  • cell phone

  • large storage

  • vga out

  • Instant/Always on Operating System

CONS

  • Large

  • Weird Keyboard placement, would have to feel to see if it was usable on the go

  • Windows Mobile OS, specifically the browser. Internet Explorer Mobile is a poor excuse of a web browser, and a simple connection to the web and a fully supported browser takes care of 95% of anyones productivity needs.

  • super big phone, would have to be used with a bluetooth headset, but I sort of do that already

  • not sold in us :(

  • expensive

So, basically, I love it! haha. With the storage space it seems entirely feasible to “hack” it and install linux on it for a full os. But then you would lose all the cell phone, messaging, and syncing ability - which entirely defeats the purpose of the device.

Are there any other mobile gadget geeks out there? What do you think?

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FINALLY! A new Who Are These Guys Podcast is LIVE!

by Tony Steward on April 23, 2007

Check out the new episode (#3) of the Who Are These Guys podcast.
In this episode we talk about:

  • Dinner with Chris Sligh
  • Jack Donkeys
  • Web2Expo
  • Geek Stuff
  • San Francisco

(Leave us an iTunes Review!) [...if you make it all the way through...]

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Pics San Francisco!

by Tony Steward on April 20, 2007

















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